Highlights: November 2019

Another month mash-up!  At the beginning of the month, SMS and I took a walk over to the Cantor Arts Center.  We enjoyed the temporary exhibit West x Southwest: Edward Weston and Ansel Adams.  We also looked at the objects in the “Melancholy Museum,” an organized presentation of many items collected by Leland Stanford the III, the only child of Leland Stanford, Jr. and who died at the age of 16 from typhoid.  The pictures above are the death masks of the three Stanfords (macabre!) and on the left, an Ansel Adams picture.  Mrs. Stanford’s death story is especially interesting since she was poisoned twice and the second time, died.  She was murdered and it is an unsolved crime!!!

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I went to UCSD for Grand Rounds during the week and decided to document this statue’s ignominy of getting constantly crapped on by birds.

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SMS gave me this cool mug!  Thank you!!!

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Haha, the perils of taking your questions to the internet!

SMS and I spent the weekend in Newport.  I got a breakfast-in-a-glass Bloody Mary and had SMS take a picture in front of Birdie to show to the paraquitos!

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Newport Beach, CA

 

The next weekend, I took a few days off of work for a family vacation.  First, I stayed with my grandfather in Stuart, FL for  a few days which was really relaxing and fun.  My grandfather just became a Bridge Master, so I took a picture of his trophy glass.  I also took a picture of the many panic button lanyards at the gym…hazards of working out when older but hey, it’s good to be alive and kicking, just not on the floor unable to get up.

Then I drove down to Bay Harbour/North Miami for a family wedding, Dad’s side.  On the way, I stopped for lunch and a quick walk at the Morikami Museum.  The Japanese gardens were gorgeous.  I enjoyed lunch on an outdoor deck and during that time, I decided I really liked Southern Florida in November!

I was the only one of my immediate family who could make it and since my cousins had been great in coming to our weddings, I wanted to show up for theirs.  It was absolutely beautiful with a ceremony on the beach and the reception indoors at the Four Seasons.

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Selfie with my aunt and uncle who still tell me stories about when I would sleep over at their apartment in NYC, circa 1985.

On the way back, I connected through Chicago which meant I could get a margarita roadie to go while making my way across the airport.  Yeah, I really needed that!  *Eyeroll*  But how can I stay away from Rick Bayless?!?!  I also met a woman who has a “real” company and a “fun” company.  We talked about her “fun” company, which specializes in cashmere onesies.  She was rocking one herself and both the flight attendant and I thought it was wonderful.  It’s pricy but so tempting!  Don’t worry, have still resisted temptation…so far!

I arrived home to a full apartment since our friends were visiting.  The A family had a crazy-busy San Diego itinerary- they went to the Zoo, Safari Park, Legoland, AND SeaWorld!  I worked during the week, but we would meet up afterwards for dinner.  On Wednesday, I watched Ishaan while the parents had a date night.  Even though Ishaan and I had fun, I am no match in the popularity contest once SMS arrives!

Yes, Ishaan made SMS a poster and we picked him up from the airport.  On the way back, we stopped at the Spruce St suspension bridge, which made Ishaan a little nervous.

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The next day, we all went to La Jolla for lunch at the Taco Stand (so good!), followed by a trip down to the Cove and the Children’s Beach, now overrun by sunbathing seals.

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Drinks in La Jolla!

Afterwards, we went to Cabrillo National Monument and walked around the tide pools at sunset.  It was beautiful!

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Gorgeous!
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Dos amigos!

We went to the top to overlook San Diego and saw a really cool focal rain storm.  It was hard to capture on camera, but we did our best!

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We met up with John at Craft & Commerce, which everyone enjoyed.  Jyotsna ranked their cocktails slightly higher than Herb & Wood, but thought both places were amazing.

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Finally, SMS and I found a new-to-us restaurant, A Taste of Denmark.  Their smørrebrøds, with homemade multigrain bread, were on point!  The herring was my favorite.

To end the month, SMS and I took a walk through the Hotel Del to look at the Christmas decorations.  We also caught a beautiful sunset from the beach.

Highlights: October 2019

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Wrapping up October with a quick fly-by!  I have to be done by the New Year- new resolution, more frequent blogging.  This has only been made and broken many times!

So, first things first.  The above picture is from a dresser I have from my parents.  It dates back to childhood and I just recently noticed by sister’s long-ago vandalism.  When I texted her on WhatsApp (would we ever have thought?!) she said, “That’s me!!”

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I finally got my own office and moved out of my temporary digs.  As a present, I left a few Milk Duds in the toilet bowl (see an earlier post entitled, Office Prankster).  I think it’s funny and I’m fairly certain was never seen by anyone other than me and the janitor.

I found Sidecar Doughnuts in Del Mar Heights.  This was a delicious, although unnecessary, discovery.

SMS and I took a hike at Huddart Park after the Wunderlich parking lot was full.  It ended up being a stroke of good luck because now we know of two cool parks to hike in, both with second-growth redwoods.  From the sign, it would be safer to have a child with us that we can hold in front of us should a mountain lion stalk us.

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We also went to the Blue Angels show during Fleet Week, San Francisco.  I tried very hard to picture myself as a sailor.  Hmmmm….  The Blue Angels were pretty spectacular and we had a great spot on a gorgeous day!

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I got tickets to the SLAC Community Open House and surprised SMS with a fun date night.  I feel this date night disappointed my sister-in-law, whom I had told we had a cool date night and the next day, when I told her where it was, I could feel the palpable “You guys are such dorks” waves come through the phone lines.

We managed to get some limited tickets to see the actual linear accelerator.  It was very cool so I took a few photos.  I think I need a klystron, with accompanying warning sign, in my own workspace.

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I found a cool outdoor/indoor coffee bar in Little Italy, Lofty!

Jenny invited me to Lizzo!  It was an excellent concert!

SMS and I had San Diego’s best!breakfast! at Hob Nob Hill restaurant.

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New wall art!

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Pretty flower shop in at the North Park/South Park junction!

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Hanging out in San Diego, not sure where?  Wait!  We are at Cabrillo National Monument.  Looking cute, might delete later!

And finally, Halloween.  The department secretary organized everyone (read: six fools) to buy Waldo costumes, which was a lot of fun.  I made a layered chocolate cake from Martha Stewart, which was delicious.  I did have a Martha fail while making it (see rightmost photo), where I learned that you can over whip Whipped Cream!

Highlights: September 2019

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The biggest highlight of all was my beautiful sister, lovely husband, and cutest baby had their wedding/celebration of love in Minneapolis.  They held it at Summit Manor but the whole weekend was a whirlwind of festivities and family time.  The wedding itself was 1 Sept so here we are with the main event in the proper month highlights (some sort of system is needed for this mega-summary approach to the second half of 2019!).

The wedding was awesome!  Brady and Ricardo have awesome family and friends.  SMS and I had the best time aaannnnnddd…I got to give a MOH speech!  Brady was such an amazing MOH that I wanted to be one to and, at a minimum, I didn’t embarrass myself!  I also did some important MOH duties like booking a group nail appointment (which I missed due to flight delays) and day of make-up and hair for the bride!

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The day after the wedding, we went down to a brewery that SMS had found.  We wanted to ride scooters but thought, no way would four show up all together and…manifesting to the universe worked!  There were four scooters in a row and away we went, me bringing up the rear as a scooter chicken!  SMS and Ed were the bravest, going off-roading down a grassy hill with zero casualties.  Good job!

I got the beer sampler and, as luck would have it, got the confused newbie who gave me medium sized cups instead of the sampler cups.  My sister-in-law was very jealous to which I say…

Here are a few shots of SMS.  On the left is in Minnesota and on the right is somewhere in the Bay Area the next weekend.

Below is a New Yorker cartoon I find very funny.  I think I’m going to order a print of it.

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CREDIT: The New Yorker Collection/The Cartoon Bank

Above are a few photos from Coronado.  Left to right, a pretty sunset; my balcony garden; SMS being the consummate law-abiding pedestrian waiting for the walk sign without his renegade wife; the queen-sized Ikea bed I put together myself!

I saw three author talks in San Diego: Colson Whitehead (Underground Railroad, The Nickel Boys), Rebecca Makkai (The Great Believers), and Bruce Holsinger (The Gifted School).  All three were excellent.  I liked Bruce Holsinger’s talk the most because it focused a lot on the academic practice of writing since both he and the interviewer are Literature professors.

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St. Frank Coffee, Menlo Park.  Take-away or outdoor table only.  A nice find by SMS!
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Applewood Inn, Guerneville

We went up to Sonoma with Rip and Linda for two Harvest Parties: Medlock Ames and Lancaster with a stop at the Hawkes tasting room.  It was an awesome weekend.  I love Medlock Ames wines and they threw a great party!

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SMS at Medlock Ames
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Medlock Ames, SMS and parents

On Sunday, we went to Armstrong Redwoods State National Preserve to walk among the Redwoods, which I think is the thing to do since there aren’t too many old-growth redwood stands around! Logging was so widespread in the 1800s that most redwood forests now are second-growth and while impressive, do not even approach the size of the 1000+ year old trees!

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Chair inspiration

 

Highlights: August 2019 (Part 1: Road Trip Edition)

SMS and I are YouTube stars.  Yes, really!  Ok, no, not so much.  But we do have our own channel with 11 subscribers and a few hundred views.  We’re going to go viral any….second…

But, yes, I’m going to be a little bit lazy and start off with the YouTube channel first since it covers our entire cross-country trip from Norfolk, VA to San Diego, CA.  We had a really nice time although, surprise, surprise, it was a lot of driving.  (This blog: come for the pictures, stay for the insights.)

But I do have pictures!  Yes,  I’ll go into a few highlights and lessons not really covered in the Vlog since our main focus there was the logistics of driving an EV cross-country.

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Birds go first!

Lesson 1: There is always more stuff than I think!  Argh, yes, I envisioned a completely clear back seat so that the car was less of a target for break-ins.  But, yet again after many moves, the “small amount” I left behind blossomed and filled the trunk and back seat.  While this may have been a predictable outcome, it was still annoying.

Our starting point was Virginia Beach.  We actually touched the ocean before leaving, although by the time we got to San Diego, we were over it and didn’t make it to the coastline proper.

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Breakfast with Dad at Three Ships coffee in Virginia Beach.  I love that place and their country ham biscuits are delicious!

After breakfast with Dad and dropping him off at the airport (you can’t ride with us!), we went to the hospital for my final checkout.  There, I had my first Bates blowout of my career.  What’s that, you ask?

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Bates Blowout

A Bates Blowout is when your overpriced, cheaply made Bates uniform shoes completely fall apart on you in very short order.  I never really believed people before it happened to me, but it’s real.  In the span of walking 30 feet down a hallway, my shoes completely fell apart, shedding chunks of black rubber along the hallway.  It reminded me of a line from a Will Farrell movie: “I’m not angry, I’m impressed!”

So, we finally hit the road where I promptly sliced the tip of my finger open.  See vlog for evidence.  So yes, the road trip was off to a rough start and SMS is a saint.  The end.

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Kidding!  Our first stop was Charleston where we stayed for two nights.  It kind of squished the rest of the trip but this was the city we wanted to explore a little more.

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Charleston was very pretty.  I was somewhat tempted to go on some sort of tour, but after a crazy month, I just wanted to relax and walk around.

We ate a few delicious places, some planned, some not.  167 Raw is a delicious temple to awesome seafood.  It has a pretty relaxed vibe and it was fun to learn a little bit more about oysters from the really nice bartender.

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We stayed at the Grand Bohemian hotel, which offered overnight charging.  The hotel was pretty awesome with a lot of contemporary art works on display and a cool gallery on the first floor.  We met up with my cousins at the Eleve rooftop bar, which had a really nice outdoor space.   I felt very cool because my cousin’s girlfriend said she had been wanting to go there for a long-time so I felt in the know, even though I had no idea what was cool!

The next night, we went to Chez Nous, which has a really good reputation with a very small menu and cool interior.  Honestly, we didn’t love it but it was fine.

Afterwards, we went to Edmund’s Oast because I had lasting FOMO from when I was in Charleston for a bachelorette party and I didn’t have the PB&J beer because I was worried what it might do to my stomach at the beginning of a night of dancing and drinking.  Ha!  Don’t tell me I don’t have good judgement!  Well, maybe it’s not perfect judgement because I still wanted to drink it and it was, at best, so-so in my opinion.  Win some, lose some!  The outside courtyard was a total winner though and it was nice to relax outside.

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Then, we were off!  We met up with our Yokosuka friends while charging in Atlanta.  Emily is out of the military and studying to be a CRNA while her husband continues to work as a civilian as well.

Another awesome meal stop was in Birmingham where we stopped at Saw’s BBQ.  We both ordered the Pork ‘nGreens, which I rhapsodize about on the YouTube episode.  SMS ordered it the last time we were in Birmingham and this time, I didn’t make the same mistake of not getting a plate for myself.  It’s a dish with a delicious nest of grits with collard greens, pulled pork, and fried onions on top.  This does not sound amazing but I promise you, it is completely insane.

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We pulled into Memphis late that evening and the next morning, we had brunch with more Yokosuka friends!  I am so happy to have seen my friends, whom I basically just messaged out of the blue to see if we could meet for a meal.  I didn’t invite ourselves over to Brooke and Aaron’s but because of the kids and visiting parents, it was easier for them to meet at their place.

After brunch, we hit the road.  Aaron lent us a Route 66 book that we used during our trip.  They also recommended going to Bass Pro shop inside a former basket ball arena, a 535,000-square-foot pyramid!  We took the slow elevator to the top and had a pretty incredible view of Memphis.

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On our way West, one of the Tesla Superchargers was in the town of Shamrock, TX.  There’s an old restaurant (no longer in service) and U Drop Inn, a highlight featured in the Route 66 guidebook!  The building is featured in the animated movie Cars.  It’s very cute.

It’s also staffed by the most aggressively nice volunteers I ever met.  We were strong-armed into a photoshoot, posing in the restaurant and sticking a pin in the town we’re from.  The map, aided by the fact that every visitor is forced at nicepoint to place a pin, is pretty impressive in showing the worldwide appeal of Shamrock, TX.

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SMS drove the car up to the pump and pretended to fill the Tesla.  We’re hi-wa-wi-ous!!!

At another Texas BBQ stop, we came upon a DeLorean time machine.

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Another highlight featured in our YouTube episode: The Continental Divide.  You will see SMS pour out water from a bottle.  Where will it go?!?!

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The Grand Canyon State…*sigh*…someday I will see the Grand Canyon.

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The Petrified Forest vista.  I wish we could explore the park more but our charge was low, which meant our AC wouldn’t work in Park mode.  This was problematic since there were four feathered friends in the car that would have roasted.

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Thank you for caring!!!
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Random food shot- looks delicious!

Recreating a Moment, 7 years later…

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SMS was eating these very waffles.  He offered me one but I was on the Whole 30 and disciplined!  No!  No waffles!

SMS and I met seven years ago as I cut across Balboa Park during December Nights to meet up with a group of friends.  On the way, I saw two other friends whom I hadn’t expected to see.  I popped my head over the wall, called out their last name, and SMS thought that this now-she’s-here-now-she’s-gone (had to meet up with that other group!) woman in the red pants with red lipstick was intriguing.  Now, seven years later, we went to a cloudy December Nights during the day and I thought an impromptu photo shoot was in order!

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Peering over the wall.  I don’t think the mid-blink look was what caught SMS’ eye.
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Picture a nighttime crowd and this is what SMS looked like!  Hasn’t aged a day!
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Smiles at December Nights!
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The Japanese Friendship Garden.  It is so beautiful!  I can’t wait until the Spring!
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Christmas Decorations at the Timken Museum